This is a brief guide written for gay, lesbian, transgender, queer travellers and locals living in Hong Kong. It includes events, clubs, community groups, and LGBTQ-related media resources
I moved to Hong Kong in the Fall of 2009. Back then, Hong Kong was about to host its second Pride Parade. Smartphones weren’t a thing yet. Rummage in that memory attic for a world without Tindr, Grindr, or any similar app. MSN Messenger was still a thing. WiFi hotspots were not. Don’t go too far: there was Facebook.
Needless to say, the city’s changed a lot since then (in more ways than feeling like it’s doubled in population). Hong Kong now has a strong, visible community, hosts some large annual events, and is even making a bid for the 2022 Out Games. Diversity and inclusion is on the corporate discussion table. Like many other cities, same-sex marriage is doing its rounds through the courts.
Despite its smothering humidity and overcrowded MTR, it is still a hot travel destination. For a city with an LGBTQ culture that’s mushroomed publicly in the past few years, most of the contributing community members are too busy forging ahead to catalogue the good stuff they’ve helped create.
Here’s a brief guide for travellers and newcomers alike. Below, the sections are:
- How LGBTQ-friendly is Hong Kong?
- What’s the community and scene like?
- How do I find people?
- LGBTQ Community Groups
- What are good events to attend?
- What’s the nightlife like?
- What’s it like living here?
- What’s some good Hong Kong LGBTQ content to check out?
Disclaimer: This guide is a work in progress. It is a compilation by a Cantonese-speaking semi-local in Hong Kong. Most of the things in the things I’ve written about are based on my own personal research and experiences. This is meant as an overview, and designed for visitors more comfortable in English, but includes many local Cantonese initiatives, which I think are worthwhile to learn about.
1) How LGBTQ-friendly is Hong Kong?
On the scale of things, pretty friendly, especially for a traveller. You can go ahead with PDA (public display of affection) and even if someone stares, it’s usually out of confusion rather than hostility. Also, Hong Kong’s also generally a safe city, period. I’ll elaborate in another post about things I like and dislike about LGBTQ issues in the city.
If you’re planning to live here or applying for a spouse to join you on a dependency visa, things may be a bit more complicated. The legal side of LGBTQ-related issues are not as progressive compared to the gold star countries. If you are working in a multinational company, then the rapidly changing attitudes of international firms will likely trickle into your benefits packages.
2) What’s the community and scene like?
Depending on who you talk to, the answer can vary widely.
Firstly, there is a cultural difference between the ‘local’ Cantonese speaking scene and the English-speaking, ‘expat’ scene. The latter is far more publically active, especially for nightlife. The former tends to be more low-key and organise casual social events through networks. Many events happen during the day, such as sports practices, workshops, and lunch get-togethers.
Depending on where people come from, they will either feel that Hong Kong ‘doesn’t have much’ or has a lot. Both answers can be correct. Especially in the corporate world, diversity and inclusion is now a hot topic. There is usually an event (i.e. talk, workshop, drinks) every week or so hosted by some LGBTQ group. These will often be in English. In addition, Hong Kong has some large LGBTQ events that would be great to time your visit with, such as the HK Gay and Lesbian Film Festival or Pink Season. You can check the ‘events to check out’ section below.
However, for a city with over 7 million people, the visible nightlife isn’t as big as one would expect. Having said that, of course, there are plenty of gay bars and a handful of lesbian events. In addition, places close and open under a different name fairly often, so the information online sometimes lags a bit. You can check out the ‘Nightlife’ section below.
In addition, the attitudes towards things like relationships, family, or whether to be out, tend to differ between the local and expat communities. If you are interested in engaging the local scene, then it is best to find a bi-cultural friend to introduce you; you may also want to take it slow by spending more time listening, as many people become nervous around English speakers (for various reasons, but let’s just say they become self-conscious).
Lastly, initiatives and events are often scattered and you need to know what you’re looking for. Often local sites that have English versions are not search engine optimised, and don’t show up on Google searches. Facebook names can be unintuitive, and groups are often closed or secret. There’s more than meets the eye!
You can also try this LGBTQ Walking Tour that started in 2016.
3) How do I find people?
The best way to meet other LGBTQ people is through groups. It may be a community or support group, work group, or sports group. Another way is to volunteer. Check the ‘Community Groups’ section below for the list and also search for Facebook groups, and Meetup groups.
Lastly, Whatsapp groups are fairly common, but you need to meet someone who’s already in a group to invite you in first.
4) LGBTQ Community Groups:
Big Love Alliance
Founded in 2013 by out celebrities Anthony Wong, Denise Ho (HOCC), with support from Legislative Council members Cyd Ho and Raymond Chan. It hosts community events such as concerts, workshops, and panel discussions. It also creates media content for the public.
Established in 1998, this non-profit has a resource centre in Jordan, a help-line, blood testing service, a library, and hosts regular events. They have an English site.
Community Business’s LGBTQI Initiatives
A non-profit organisation that aims to create more diversity and inclusion (in general) in the workplace, Community Business began research on LGBTQ inclusion in its member private companies. This has since evolved to additional initiatives such as the LGBT Resource Guide for Hong Kong and China, Workplace Inclusion Index, and various conferences for diversity and inclusion.
Pink Alliance (粉紅同盟)
They are the coalition linked to Pink Season, Hong Kong’s month-long Pride celebrations. This site has information on the group, their affiliates, and general information for the LGBTQ community. For example, it includes LGBT terms, history, LGBTQ-related media. They even have a summer internship program called the ‘Pink Experience’.
Les Love Study (女同學社)
A non-profit started in 2005 with a strong board of directors, this is basically a one-stop portal to a lot of lesbian-related content, such as groups, events, icons, media. There are parts of the website in English. The portal will bounce you to various older site versions, but just work your way through it! Otherwise, head to the Facebook Group, which shares general media like videos.
Out in HK
This is an LGBTQ sports group. From my understanding, the turnout is higher for guys. For women, you have a better bet joining a rugby or lacrosse team.
Queer Straight Alliance (GSA)
The group includes various universities in Hong Kong (and potentially high school self-organised chapters) open to LGBTQI individuals and allies. It also Organises an Inclusion Recruitment Conference and collaborates with other groups such as Pink Alliance and Community Business.
Aids Concern (關懷愛滋)
This non-profit does workshops, support groups, campaigns, and offers HIV testing.
Tong Zhi Literature Group
As the name suggests, it’s a reading group and also promotes works by LGBTQ writers.
There is a secret group for lesbians on Facebook. If you are interested, message me and tell me your rough dates in Hong Kong and your Facebook profile.
Transgender Resource Centre
A non-profit spearheaded by Joanne Leung that creates a safe space for people who don’t fall into the cis-gender binary. The centre hosts monthly roundtables, which participants need to register for. The website is in English and Chinese. It has a counselling service and an English Facebook Group.
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